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Monthly Archives: April 2011
If you told me a week ago I would be watching the Royal wedding, I would have thought you lost the plot. If you told me I will be writing about it, surely I lost the plot.
Here is the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth, so help me God:
I was running way behind on everything last night. By the time I tidied up, loaded the dishwasher and polished my riding boots, midnight was approaching. I wrote my blog entry, published it and installed Tweetdeck. As you know I am mad about things like that, so i had to test it. It was buzzing with all the #Royalwedding tweets so I turned on to CNN for live coverage. The Beckhams just entered the Abbey. I had to see her shoes. Next thing you know, I am eating pretzels and waiting for Kate to get hitched.
Now don’t get me wrong. I obviously never met the happy couple, therefor I have no personal interest in this affair. It started out as a hat curiosity. But I was touched.
I felt like they truly care about each other. Let’s not call it a fairy tale marriage. But they look happy. Comfortable. I call that love.
The dress was flawless, the bride beautiful, prince was charming. Pages and bridesmaids were precious. Even the array of mad hats was entertaining. And you know my heart skipped a bit watching the Royal Calvary.
The kiss was perfect. So them. I wish both all the best. Because I have no reason not to.
I was touched by Bishop’s Sermon. And if you, like me, were to busy scanning the hats; here it is. It remainded me of why I married in the first place. And why, no matter what, I want to grow old with Husband.
The Wedding of Prince William and Catherine
Westminster Abbey – 29/04/11
(The sermon is available to watch at on YouTube.)
“Be who God meant you to be and you will set the world on fire.”
So said St Catherine of Siena whose festival day this is. Marriage is intended to be a way in which man and woman help each other to become what God meant each one to be, their deepest and truest selves.
Many people are fearful for the future of today’s world but the message of the celebrations in this country and far beyond its shores is the right one – this is a joyful day! It is good that people in every continent are able to share in these celebrations because this is, as every wedding day should be, a day of hope.
In a sense every wedding is a royal wedding with the bride and groom as king and queen of creation, making a new life together so that life can flow through them into the future.
William and Catherine, you have chosen to be married in the sight of a generous God who so loved the world that he gave himself to us in the person of Jesus Christ.
In the Spirit of this generous God, husband and wife are to give themselves to each other.
The spiritual life grows as love finds its centre beyond ourselves. Faithful and committed relationships offer a door into the mystery of spiritual life in which we discover this: the more we give of self, the richer we become in soul; the more we go beyond ourselves in love, the more we become our true selves and our spiritual beauty is more fully revealed. In marriage we are seeking to bring one another into fuller life.
It is of course very hard to wean ourselves away from self-centredness. People can dream of such a thing but that hope should not be fulfilled without a solemn decision that, whatever the difficulties, we are committed to the way of generous love.
You have both made your decision today – “I will” – and by making this new relationship, you have aligned yourselves with what we believe is the way in which life is spiritually evolving, and which will lead to a creative future for the human race.
We stand looking forward to a century which is full of promise and full of peril. Human beings are confronting the question of how to use wisely the power that has been given to us through the discoveries of the last century. We shall not be converted to the promise of the future by more knowledge, but rather by an increase of loving wisdom and reverence, for life, for the earth and for one another.
Marriage should transform, as husband and wife make one another their work of art. It is possible to transform so long as we do not harbour ambitions to reform our partner. There must be no coercion if the Spirit is to flow; each must give the other space and freedom. Chaucer, the London poet, sums it up in a pithy phrase:
“Whan maistrie [mastery] comth, the God of Love anon, Beteth his wynges, and farewell, he is gon.”
As the reality of God has faded from so many lives in the West, there has been a corresponding inflation of expectations that personal relations alone will supply meaning and happiness in life. This is to load our partner with too great a burden. We are all incomplete: we all need the love which is secure, rather than oppressive. We need mutual forgiveness in order to thrive.
As we move towards our partner in love, following the example of Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit is quickened within us and can increasingly fill our lives with light. This leads on to a family life which offers the best conditions in which the next generation can receive and exchange those gifts which can overcome fear and division and incubate the coming world of the Spirit, whose fruits are love and joy and peace.
I pray that all of us present and the many millions watching this ceremony and sharing in your joy today will do everything in their power to support and uphold you in your new life. I pray that God will bless you in the way of life you have chosen. That way which is expressed in the prayer that you have composed together in preparation for this day:
God our Father, we thank you for our families; for the love that we share and for the joy of our marriage. In the busyness of each day keep our eyes fixed on what is real and important in life and help us to be generous with our time and love and energy. Strengthened by our union help us to serve and comfort those who suffer. We ask this in the Spirit of Jesus Christ. Amen.
Editor’s note: The religious beliefs expressed in this Sermon are not my own. But I felt it spoke of an universal approach to love and kindness we can all learn from and follow. I personally refuse to speak of my faith, so please understand any comments on that I will not respond to.
Scene from our dinning room tonight:
We are just finishing dinner. There is a knock on the door and Husband gets up. Little J follows.
It is the neighbor’s girls. Husband returns to the table and Little J tells his friends:
“We are having dinner so I cannot come out to play. Also you cannot come in until we finish eating.”
My neighbor catches up with her daughters and asks Little J if he can pass something on to me. As you can imagine Husband and I are laughing at the table, trying hard not to.
“OK, I will give this to mama. We are having dinner, salmon. I am not finished. So you cannot come in.”
At this point I got up and invited Mrs. A in. Little J quickly had his last few bites. Kids played and had fun. We sat and drank wine. But honestly I have no idea what made my son so adamant about dinner time being sacred. Maybe he remembered the time I took the girls home . Maybe piggy bank is working. Or maybe, just maybe he is actually starting to enjoy dinner time.
I really wanted to do this week’s prompt number 4.) Photo Story: Take a walk through your neighborhood this week and share some pictures of what Spring looks like where you live.
There is a bit of pressure because I lack two things that most bloggers who add pictures to their posts have: a keen eye for photography and a decent camera. The first I told you more about yesterday and as for the camera, it is older then my son and is mostly used by him too. In fact I will let you on a huge secret: the picture I use as Twitter avatar was in fact taken by my three year old by mistake.
But I have one huge advantage. My neighbors. It is where we spend most of our days, where our beloved Vizon is, where our friends live and where you should one day visit. These might not be the best shots, but they capture a little piece of heaven. Enjoy our spring.
All pictures were taken at Wildwood Farm, WA.